The OP is definitely not alone. I just cancelled three accounts because of this and other issues of sexism. I'd like to point out that even if your SW personally chooses not to use the shock collar on Vette, you're still stuck in an MMO with other players who are using it in public on her. Often while having her dressed in a slave Leia costume.

It's not terribly important to me whether I get access now or some other day, but I'm very upset that I haven't been told when I would get it. Any disruption to my sleep schedule causes me to get a migraine. I preordered and registered the CE on July 22nd and got up at 4am this morning expecting to receive access to the game. I knew I would get a migraine, but it would be worth it to get the character names I wanted. Well, I have the migraine, but no access. You guys think this isn't a queue? It is one, and I've been sitting in it for 4 hours now, only with no feedback whatsoever as to how long I'll be in it. I'm sick as a dog, and I have to work today. Thanks for nothing, Bioware. Worst launch ever.