I went thru that phase too so what I do now is shower the community with opportunities, and don't get distracted with petty teen pride. Refusing to reply is a safe way to maintain the integrity of your style of play and I personally can appreciate that. So next you should experience a player like no other, then you will get involved a bit, you will find behind most statements is a helping person that cant quite express niceness, it is a difficult thing for some. So I say heads up stand strong and play the way you want to, and I'm sure you do!!!