So is the only way to enjoy flashpoints to play them with people you know? Every time I queue for a flashpoint an activity finder the randoms just run around the aggro zones and you don't get any time to enjoy the work put into the game lol, also passing up all that xp and loot.
Sorry just getting back into the game after many many years and have found this to be fracking frustrating haha, last time I tried team wiped because they even messed up their "aggro" dodging, sigh.