...but the prize!
Very understandable. The romance options in DA and DA 2 sucked (Anders) but I liked Atton in KOTOR 2. I hope the Imperial Agent romances don't suck.
Ooh, I liked the romance with Atton, though I'm male. It didn't make me feel awkward at all and actually added to my character cause she has this 'pull' with people and influences them (Anders DID make me feel awkward. I didn't do it but I tried the flirt options). Alistair was ok, he was fun and he wasn't my main romance (modded my game so I romanced EVERYONE, hehe. well all the romanceable characters anyway.).