I've noticed that too. Just had a convo with my smuggler and Risha where he downright yelled at her, telling her she's not his type while the other too were flirt options. I found that a little odd. A polite decline would have been sufficient. It just really didn't fit the way I play hin.
I'm still hoping they go through and edit the chat option choices to clearly state exactly what you're going to say. I hate it when the line reads one way, and plays out a totally different way.
While solo, I don't mind the ESC out route, but while teaming, I feel like I should stick with the one I chose, even if it didn't fit how I saw my character acting.