I don't know if this is the guild for me, but I'm definitely a casual player, looking for an active group to join up with. With my schedule, I will be playing sparingly.
I don't understand the issue. If this isn't what you wanted, and you're not happy with it, don't play it. I've done that with many games. No reason to make a big deal about it.
Without sounding like a broken record, the game hasn't even launched yet. Huge wait times... it sucks, I know. But they still have 4 days to have everything fixed for a stellar launch. We're essentially the last beta test.
Are the queue times frustrating? Absolutely. Will I survive? Absolutely.
As much as I'd rather be in game playing, I think it's a good sign for the game itself that there are this many people trying to get in the game. The past 2 months I started to worry about this game, but I think Bioware hit a home run here.