Hang in there.. Just try to have fun and who knows, you may stumble upon someone who will help you out just for the sake of it, rather than you specifically looking for a fp group. That happened to me and now grouping can be a lot of fun, but it's still hit or miss. I used to feel similar regarding nerves when in a party, especially as a healer( FFXI WM), you can ruffle some feathers. Don't despair though, do your leveling and like a few others mentioned, you can always go back and solo them later. I did Trouble in Deed last night (4+heroic lvl 15-16) as a lvl 23 JK Sentinel. It was a blast!!! I don't quite get why so many people are so uptight and prone to flaming anyone under the sun for such arbitrary things. The guy has something on his mind and posted about it, BFD! I didn't take your comment as a rant at all.. and their is a difference between real time game experience messaging, and posting on a forum. Geez Louise, it's apples and oranges people.. RELAX!! Anyway, as someone with a bit of social anxiety like yourself, my best advice to you is to keep playing, learn your class strengths and weakness, and solo grind all you want. However, after you level up quite a bit and have a better feel for your abilities, you should help out a much lower level player with a quest or FP. You won't have any reason to be nervous regarding making an in game mistake, so with that pressure gone, you may find yourself feeling a bit more confident. Good luck=)