That was a Bioware guy who tried to say that he'd worded it really badly and that by "no gays" what he really meant was that people in the Star Wars universe didn't have a similar attitude to sexuality like Earth people, so they didn't label each other like that.
I don't think he worked as a Community Representative for long after that.
Yeah, he said something like "gay" doesn't exist in Star Wars, meaning, calling people "gay". There was an apology and clarification afterwards and possibly a firing, I think. That's the only thing that I recall, I think some people over time have falsely attributed that to something said by Lucas or LucasArts. I've searched to see if I could find anything else being said before and found nothing.