How did I get that kind of gear? By putting in the time and effort by doing constant dailys, and the occasional pugging of raids if I have time from working 15 hours Mon-Friday (I leave the house at 4:30am and get home at 8pm) just to head off to bed at 9:30pm to do it all over again the next day...
You're one of the rare ones that actually WORK for what they have instead of crying about it and wanting it handed to them.
Most people on the forums complain that they can't get high level gear because they aren't able to play as much.
Anyone can obtain full Dread Guard mods,armorings,hilts and enhancements,earpieces, and implants without doing a single raid.
It just takes time and effort.
I'm full 63 geared (minus ear and implants) and have yet to get a drop for my class from HM TFB yet.