I agree with OP. As a subscriber, I do feel like they give away too much. Just my opinion, but also, with this knowledge, becoming a preferred player is a definite possibility in the future for me.
If the F2Pers have it so good just unsub and enjoy everything for free.
What's that? You don't want to because F2P severely limits your options even as a preferred player?
Seriously, if you think F2P is giving away the milk, create an alternate Origin account and log in as F2P. Get a feel for what it's like to have just about everything limited in one way or another. Be sure to play to 10 when your xp gets gimped.