If you want to think that, then go for it. But the fact is that healers rarely get credit for what they do and often get the blame. I haven't got time for this kind of thing. I want to get in, do the thing and get out. Most people aren't doing flashpoints for the pleasure of it. We're doing it for comms or gear, which allow us to do other content we actually do enjoy.
Also, I wouldn't be ignoring you over a difference of opinion, so stop putting words in my mouth. I'm sure we disagree on many things. It's just on this particular issue, our difference of opinion directly affects my ability to do my job.
People continually complain about bad healers and yet a healer who takes their role seriously is called anal. At least I took the time to learn how to do my role properly, which enables you to do yours without fear of death.