That's one heck of a reply. I'll copy/paste the guide part into my notebook for future reading.
It didn't exactly help that there were 3 people giving me contradictory directions, so there were essentially 3 "leaders". 1 of them was nice and tried to be reasonable, the other 2 mostly just threw insults at me and 1 grappled me to the "right" position from time to time giving the other 2 further ammunition to have some choice words as to why I moved again. So yeah, it's not easy for anyone, but being a leader would probably suck the most if you have some know-it-all guys in the group who aren't afraid to take initiative and undermine everything.