The E3 trailer is irrevelent, it was a while ago. Things changes between stuff shown in gameplay trailers and the actual game. As a game tester, I can assure you of that, I've seen it happen to nearly all games.
I personally haven't seen Satele Shan in game yet, but it's normal that she would appear older.
As for the hologram thing, it could be a mistake from the dev, I'd say report it, the game is not fully stable yet, I've seen many bugs in cutscenes, like cloth and hair color being wrong, eyes disapearing and such.
Or it's intentional, to decieve you into believing your character is talking to a young person, in case you're a sith spy.