what elements of female character appearance would get you to whisper them

You know I'm right..

Yeah...I can pretty much guarantee you that anyone saying "teehee" is a guy saying what he thinks girls say.

You haven't played wow much..

Soooo, you know everyone who ever said that in person?

@SW_display_name in regards to the male PC being flirted at, I'm not really sure why you said it in the first place. I mean, does it matter in any way? I get that it's a bit creepy but why not just say "Sorry, not interested" if things go too far without any reason stated? You obviously do that now, but... yeah
I try to maintain a strict disassociation between me and my characters, but answer honestly if they ask (though I don't know why they'd want to know)

I knew a guy who said 'tihihi' a bunch D:

I played on Mal'Ganis, one of the most populated servers, so yeah.

Sheesh, apparently my non-digital hubby now wants to purchase a couple more char slots and races. No shopping for revealing gear for me, gonna have to scrape the credits(and cc's) together to get him his 8 classes... Too bad. But I wow to do something about my F!Sith on the next gear update. Her current combo of 'what's available' is abominable. I think that even the dirt-cheap exercise bra CM orange would work better with that skirt.

Because someone 2 posts above me asked if making your male character a manslattern would invoke creepy whispers from the other direction ... ?

No I meant why telling them only as a reply to the whispers that you're a female playing a male character? I guess it sort of is a mood point, as you stopped doing that; I'm just curious as to the reason why you did it in the first place. To clear things up or something?

Oh, yeah, I figured it would be the fastest way to disappoint them into leaving me alone, lol. You have to understand I'm mega OCD so when I'm playing, I'm focused on playing and don't want to be distracted so I try to end weird convos like that ASAP.

My naïve assumption was that they were attracted to my male character because they assumed an attractive male was at the keyboard, so telling them the truth would immediately end things.

Reality quickly proved that who was at the keyboard seemed low-priority, so I moved on to Plan B, "Say nothing / Be polite". Since I could probably say "Actually I have a BMI of 45, I'm a quadruple-amputee, I have no teeth, and I resemble the Predator facially" and the reaction would apparently be "cool, cyber?"