NO Addons please. There is another solution!

Agreed, add-ons are bad mm'kay

I personally hate those DPS/heal meter programs.
They ruined WoW for me. I played a ret pally from day one and I did pretty good except for solo, which was a PITA having no pulling ability.
But 5 mans, raids, did what I was supposed to do, what hybrids are meant to do. Fill in where ever there's a need. Very few wipes in any group I was in. I could be DPSing then stepping back and throwing some extra heals around, even off tanking when needed.
When ever some one had a look at the percentages I was in the middle for DPS, but same for heals. After BC it was "your a ret pally you should be putting out more DPS", etc. Playing became more of a formula with rotations, and burst damage, and less about paying attention and reacting as needed. H@ll a trained monkey could play a pally after awhile.
Those meters and PVP ruined playing a ret pally for me.
Isn't a game supposed to be about having fun? I've found most add-ons are for either the lazy (can't pay attention to who needs heals or buffs) or anal retentive (we all have to play this way) and they suck the fun out of playing a MMO.

Why exactly do you not want addons available? If you don't like them, don't use them.

Sounds like you did a pretty **** job at your class. I played a ret pally from day 1, I even did MC/BWL as ret, although later on for AQ40 I did succumb to pressure and go holy. A ret pally was worthless as a healer in a raid, throw around a few heals and you would be oom. Offtank? Yeah, maybe when the whole raid is dead and you bubble tank vael for 12 seconds at 1% and finish him off, but thats a hero move, not offtanking.

Bad players are afraid of meters and addons.

I personally dont give a crap if they put meters in, but I would love some PROPER dot timers so I dont have to play a damn guessing game with my class.

Maybe, people don't want to be judged by a DPS meter when they play? Be told by some kids that, " Your DPS sucks dude, I'm going to kick you from the raid"

No your wrong. Bad Players are those who can not coordinate without the use of of an addon.

If you require an ADDOn to tell you that your doing something wrong, then your plainly retarded and do no understand your class mechanics.

So answer this then. You're a raid leader and have an OPs/Raid going. Your group clear trash fine and get to a boss, you think things are going well then BAM enrage timer hits and the whole raid wipes. You keep trying and the raid keeps wiping due to the enrage timer. You know the problem is that there isn't enough DPS being laid on the boss. Is it because you have too many healers and not enough DPS? Is it because you have 2-3 players that don't have a proper dps spec, or is it their rotation, or maybe there's a couple players who aren't geared well enough for the content? Which player/players are the ones not pushing enough dps?

As it stands right now there's no way to answer these questions. You'll have to sit there and tell the whole raid "Sorry guys, but we aren't doing enough dps, and there's really no way to tell for sure why and what needs to be fixed, so we'll try this tomorrow night and hope it goes better, ok?"

You can sit there and "Lol u suck cuz u use addons" all you want, but in a raid situation, especially a pug, there's no way of knowing who knows their class mechanics and who doesn't without some form of output showing who did what, and frankly I don't feel like having my game experience ruined because we can't figure out the problem and resolve it.

I like the OPs idea for the final Damage/Heal/DamageTaken results PvP-style. You have my vote!