Which one destroys gaming communities/games?

You forgot the best part. He talked about things that destroy the community and then ends with an incredibly anti-social "Love me or hate me, I don't care." Is that someone you even want in your community? Or who even understands community?

You are so far off in left field that I wonder if you are even reading what I say, or if you are just spouting off because I seem to be saying something that you may disagree with.

LFG/LFR raid systems are fine, as long as they aren't cross-server.

I've already seen this attitude in the game on many occasions, which means that exists regardless of the existence of the LFG tool people are asking for. If the community was actually a good community, introduction of this tool wouldn't damage it.

The type of people that start throwing out blame based off dmg meters were jerks before they logged on, and will be jerks after they log off. What you are suggesting is just "don't give people a reason to be themselves. I like my illusion of community."

Again, it is the "I don't want it, so nobody else should have it either" argument. If there are tools or functions in the game you don't like, don't use them. If you are in a group that requires addons, quit and make your own group that doesn't require addons. If you don't like LFG, feel free to put groups together the old fashioned way.

If it turns out that nobody wants to be a part of your group without addons or you can't put a group together because nobody else wants to do it the old fashioned way, well then you were in the minority to begin with and you'll have to learn to deal.

People use screwdrivers to steal cars and commit other crimes all the time. The main reason they haven't outlawed screwdrivers is because it is stupid to deny society of a useful tool because a few people misuse it.

Instead of "feeling" for me, you could have just explained the slippery slope logic behind your premise.

I don't think anyone ever forced you to get addons in WoW or spec your character to a cookie-cutter spec besides whatever arbitrary stigma you placed on yourself to play with the people YOU CHOSE to play with at the content difficulty YOU CHOSE to play at.

Personally I think it's bad form to quote somebody's questions to you and not answer them. That's just my opinion though. I won't force anyone to answer them!

i'm also a little confused as to what "community" means in this regard. I mean i know we have a billion guilds all over, so what exactly is the community if everyone is sharded off into different guilds?

what if there was 1 super guild that we all joined? that sounds more like a community to me than anything. maybe im wrong.

Community is when everyone follows your own personal beliefs of how people should act if I'm reading into this correctly.

well that doesnt seem right

OK, let's spell it out then. I did not at any point say that I would not support a LFG a tool. In fact, I actually think that a LFG tool would be helpful in this game. What I AM saying is that I don't agree with the OP in that the LFG tool supports community.