Please Bioware: Add some incentive to get people to queue for Flashpoints.

Yes, exactly this. There is nothing Bioware could add in will give me an incentive to queue up for an instance because I've had far more negative experience than positive while healing for Pick Up Groups over the years. Having a queue at all encourages negative behavior because often no one will say a single word in group chat for the whole run, unless it's to complain about something you or someone else has done wrong. Forget it if you have never run the instance, no one will tell you what is expected of you until after you've done something wrong.

Try saying my frist time here can you explain fights? you dont know what to do ask... I can explain every single fp in this game but I wont if nobody ask for it...

It's ok to ask if you're dps, but as tank/healer everyone expects you to know the content. Even if you've said that it's your first time doing the FP or you don't remember much about it and someone stops to write the strategy before the fight... BUT, there's always one Sentinel/Marauder/Sniper in the group that doesn't accept any delays and starts the fight. At this point you don't have time to read, you just have to go with the flow. If you do even one mistake that same Sentinel/Marauder/Sniper will start to mock you after the wipe.

I only tank for my guild or friends. Why? Because they understand that I start the pulls either by directing cc or by striking a mob. They aren't critical of me as I learn the ropes as a tank. They enjoy the gaming experience. These are things I can't get 99% of the time when I pug.

You can trade these at 10 Tankcomms or 10 Healcomms => 1 day of Subscription Status.

Tanking comms gear is a sick joke for both levelling and end-game. The crafted 156 enhancements have better mitigation stats than the 168's and maybe even the 180's! Tanks are forced to run Ops for reasonable gear.

Awarding sub time is about the only incentive that would temp me to tank or heal a FP.

I've been noticing another thing now, ranged or melee dps saying "it's cool, I'll tank this", as if being the tank just means that your the one who gets aggro or starts the fight.
Which is only a small part of the formula, no?
I mean, what about shields and shield, absorption and defense stats?
Where are the tank abilities (taunts, defensive cd's, etc, etc)
They don't have any. So what would make them think a tank just holds aggro and thats it?

It's ok to ask if you're dps, but as tank/healer everyone expects you to know the content. Even if you've said that it's your first time doing the FP or you don't remember much about it and someone stops to write the strategy before the fight... BUT, there's always one Sentinel/Marauder/Sniper in the group that doesn't accept any delays and starts the fight. At this point you don't have time to read, you just have to go with the flow. If you do even one mistake that same Sentinel/Marauder/Sniper will start to mock you after the wipe.