Group Finder Finding Jerks

I seem to always get the tank that cant hold aggro and i get kicked for "Not paying attention" Even when the boss doesn't even have an AOE.

You can't do your job as a healer if people race on ahead, especially if you come out of a fight with your energy down and they race off before you can rest for 10 seconds to replenish it.

It's their fault if they wipe at the next pile of trash because the healer's resting and they whizz off on their rocket boost or force speed and don't let them catch up, or go out of line of sight.

It's also their fault if they whizz off ahead on a mob-skipping route, someone gets left behind or lost, pulls by accident and dies and then everyone has to wait for them to come back in. Groups should stay together. I always keep an eye on the mini map. "More haste, less speed" as they say.

I just want to add to the post above, that is one of my pet peeves. I guess some tanks have no clue what it's like to be a healer when they rush ahead constantly and don't stop when you have zero force left. Though I tend to always be able to keep up, I still hate it. It wont kill them to stop for two seconds so that everyone on the team can heal/charge up to make sure we aren't going to wipe.

It's especially good when it can be seen that you are replenishing your health and energy/ force etc and they still run off

Back in the days of wow you wouldn't make a move unless the healer was on your tail lol

In regards to the lack of tanks, the better question is why are they are short of tanks who are geared but in dps stance. Because that seems to be the new "thing", like sniper in pvp, I have forgotten how many times I'v been qued with a tank who is in dps stance.

But guys... MOAR DEEPS MEANS MOAR THREATS RIGHT?!!?1?!//!!?one!

I think I needed to work in a few more 3s and l33ts but otherwise that would be the rough train of thought.

Unfortunately in life there are a lot of idiots out there.

LIES, I have been a "Jerk" quite a few times. Mostly when I was group in a GF like thing on another MMO as a Healer, and people where QQing about bad heals when they died b/c they where stupid. Just wish I had Legacy there so I could have taken aggro and then sent it all at them.

I had a tank in recruit gear for LI HM botch at me that I couldn't keep him healed. He got me booted from team..

Nobody ever wants to hear this, but every "jerk" group you're in has one thing in common. Can you figure out what it is?

When I use group finders in MMOs, I generally have very positive experiences.