Just accept the invite if you're on the same quest.

I understand that some people might want to quest alone. I'm one of them. But if I see someone on the same quest as me, and it's a choice between inviting them to a group, or competing for the same objectives like an idiot; I'm going to invite. I really don't understand why some people won't accept when they're nowhere near being finished with the quest.

I typically invite when they're out of combat. But I'm not going to whisper them first when it's blatantly obvious why I'm sending out the invite. And I don't spam anything.

And ppl who prefer to not auto-group (IE: not accept blind invites) will have the option toggled off.

So the ppl who are refusing to accept the OP's blind invites right now will still be refusing to accept the OP's blind invites in March.

^_^;

I typically invite when they're out of combat. But I'm not going to whisper them first when it's blatantly obvious why I'm sending out the invite. And I don't spam anything.

... I really don't understand why some people won't accept when they're nowhere near being finished with the quest.

that's why they do not accept it's rude. It would be like go stuffing some1 into the trunk of your car just becaus you are going the same way.

Is it really such a pain to send a /tell first? If you do you will prob see a lot more grouping up with you

It's quicker just to ask the question by sending out the invite.

The invite is the question. The only time one needs to actually type it out, is when it's not obvious why the invite is being sent. If we're both killing the same mobs; There is no need to whisper.

For all the people saying you want to whisper/talk about it first, imo you're probably too much overhead and generally just not efficient.

Some of the best PvE grouping experiences I've had in this game, I'm thinking of two specifically, a group invite was sent out while questing in the same a area. About 90 minutes later we said goodbye when futher objectives were in opposite direction. Not a single word said before or during group. It wasn't needed. We could both read the map and both knew what we were doing.

A couple times I invited someone nearby, they rejected and whispered they were logging soon, or waiting for a friend. No issues.

Another time I acecpted an invite, checked map, and seen we were on different quest lines. I explained and left the group. No problem. Why whisper "want to group?", that's what the group invite does. To state which quest? If I'm vaguely interested I'd rather join group and look at your objectives in my area. I may not have the one you doing right now, but could have 4 others

Other times, I may just not feel like grouping at all. Could be any number of reasons. If you whisper me with questions about it, I may feel responding with "no" would come off rude, so I'd be inclined to explain why, even if I'd rather not. Just send me the invite, I'll decline if I'm not interested; no need to whisper/talk about it.

Also, inb4 "anti-social". I am very social and found many people to invite to guild from encounters like this. I'm also not always in a big hurry. Once I know you are a capable and/or fun player, I'm willing to take plenty of time to "get to know you". I just dont have time to do so with every random person that wants to group.

/logic