Just accept the invite if you're on the same quest.

There's alwasy one... Sorry, but I'm not going to change my gaming behavior because of one person, who probably plays on a different server to me...

If you want to blame anyone, blame all the spoil sports, who have ruined it for people like your guildie, with their selfish behavior.

I have to agree with this as well.

i will say i too sometimes fire off a quick tell to say no, send a tell next time, I can only use my experience to react or do what i need to do in game and the handicap question, if it is a blind invite i will not assume it is not someone doing my quest, nor someone that is handicapped. again I applaud those that overcome their handicap and do something with that, but i can not assume everyone is either doing exactly the same thing i am or is handicapped.

Darth Freki

It's not all that hard to ask first. All you really need to do is say "<Quest Name>?" and if they respond with "Yeah" then you throw an invite at them.

If you can't be bothered to ask, even if you think it's obvious, then why would they accept an invite?

No. You can be killing the mob next to me that is only worth killing for a very specific quest and if you dont talk to me first I'm not accepting a blind invite. Sorry but thats just the way it is.

You can choose to assume the worst or the best. It's all up to you.

But the point is that perhaps we shouldn't make any assumptions at all. If you get an invite, say 'yes' or 'no' as you please, depending on the situation and your mood. It's just that simple.

My message to the thread is that you can't know anything about someone just because they clicked a "+" button to invite you to play a game with them. Ranting about how rude or morally corrupt or evil or whatever these people are is fallacious.

I generally am prone to click "yes", because maybe I could help someone who needs a hand. And I'd rather work toward a more permissive community. That's what I want in a server. Others want something else, and that's their prerogative.

And now I'm rambling.

"Just accept the invite if you're on the same quest"

no.

Yeah, it's funny that that is the premise of his whole thread, but when people suggest he send a tell first, his answer is also "no."

So it's basically "You change the way you play, but I'm going to keep playing my way."

I think we can all agree that grouping/accepting invites is a matter of personal preference and perceptive. Regardless of the situation, we feel differently and act accordingly.

I understand your frustrations OP, but don't take it personally.

Why not just cover all the bases though, send a quick whisper following the invite? You'll just come off as a more approachable individual if you show some interest in another players situation.

Cheers.

I never accept blind invites.