It's because alot of non-Lucas canon are crazy ****. Love is ****, anyway. For me, at least.
lol, the ONLY lucas canon, is the films.
you're wrong, on so many levels. you believe you're right, but then... most people do. problem with beliefs though, is people will fight and die for them, it's better to just have ideas, which can change as new information becomes available.
welcome to the darkside, believer.