What is this, I don't even.
I play a tank. Tanks have one job: to grab threat. Your problem WAS his problem.
I'm glad the DPS didn't allow him to kick you, but I would have kicked him. Or left the group voluntarily. Tank rarity bed**ned.
Life's too short to waste time on terrible players.
Only problem is that finding replacement tank takes forever, so I decided to get along. It went well, tough when last boss had about 70% health left there was only me and DPS left. That was Cademimu and I just couldn't heal trough those fires. Then tank started to tell us die with purpose because he was bored. He was quite selfish tank. But we didn't wipe
Thanks for encouraging me, I almost gave up with my healers:-)