And that running to tank, well most of tanks don't mind but once I got angry Caps Lock response about passing my problems to him
What is this, I don't even.
I play a tank. Tanks have one job: to grab threat. Your problem WAS his problem.
I'm glad the DPS didn't allow him to kick you, but I would have kicked him. Or left the group voluntarily. Tank rarity bed**ned.
Life's too short to waste time on terrible players.