This has been discussed 1000 times over on this forum.
The last time Bioware commented about this was over a year ago, and then they said they would probably change the system.
This topic has been met with silence the last 16 months or so, eventhough players bring this subject up many many times.
So 16 months of no comments from Bioware means we should lay down and take it? Sorry it doesn't work like that, the squeeky wheel gets the grease.