As it turns out, you can deselect FPs you don't want to do. You won't be eligible for the daily bonus like that, but once you've done the first one, you pick what you want. Personally I don't mind having several higher level people, it usually means I get all the gear.
You really think that we did not know that? Over half the point of doing a flashpoint IS the groupfinder reward. I do one with all selected, then maybe one more with only the highest selected.
What a waste of a post.