I agree with the OP.
If you want to join us for RP, check out www.sithicus.net
we have currently 2 ongoing story archs, one imp side and one pub side.
No one will try to be your master or godmode you into the lackey role.
We have alot of talented writers that post forum stories, I have 2 officers that take care only of RP. But we dont talk IC in guild chat.
I am sure they are other interesting RP going on out there, hope you find it.