I can understand what you are saying and why,but there is possible reasons why this occurs for you, however how about we test these theories ? also why call me ignorant, you do not know my background or knowledge like I do not know yours but I do not call you ignorant.
Post up a pathping during the major lag issues and let me know which server you play on so I can login from Australia and play on there at the same time as you and see if we both DC ?
I'm willing to do this.
In the spoilers is the number of variables in just one router on the internet