No. You're wrong. Plain and simple.
Sorry champ. Those droids pull on stealth at 25 meters. Anybody who wants to can verify this. There's one in the first room of Hammer station.
Juggs marauders, sins and powertechs don't have droid CC at 22, mercs don't have any CC at 16. Anyone can confirm this.
Heals don't pull dormant mobs. Anyone can verify this.
And mercs spam the gun so they can heal better, not "for no reason." Any merc healer can verify this.
You wiped a group, were a jerk to them, blamed them on the forums, got kicked, and got exactly nothing right in terms of what they could have been doing wrong and everything wrong in terms of why it couldn't have been your fault.