you should check us out! we are a casual multi-gamming community. We have our own voice chat server as well as an innovative website. We have a large PVE presence as well as a rapidly growing PVP presence. With countless alts, open raids, all night PVP matches, as well as 3 raid groups, there is something in Morningstar for everyone.
I also am a semi-hardcore gamer stuck in the life of a working family man, and i still manage to be the raid leader here in morningstar. check out our website, main page has not been updated but the groups(different games) are active. http://www.mstargamers.com/