You.... need to see some of the things I write in Gen chat, pubpvp chat, guild chat, PD chat, and whispers to Candy
Maybe he just wants a decent environment to have fun in
Wanting a decent/good/fun environment to play in is completely valid. I just find it ironic that he would casually flirt with people in a non -LGBT guild and expect to get no flack for it. (Because if he is gay he is most likely flirting with the men in the guild and I imagine that some would find it awkward etc.)
As for what you say to Candy, well, lol, that's your business.