Yeah, apparently there are a couple places where "being polite" is code for "take me you stud/ette." Blech, ewww, and what the hell. There are also occasions (Corso) where a kinda vague "not right now" means "I will never love you! Never! Never! Never!"
Man, I hope they fix this stuff.
Ok, now I know why people are so afraid of the same-gender options if bugs like these exist. So many levels of uncomfortableness and trigger-y-ness.