I'm a male who played a female Bounty Hunter and had a romance with Torian. I didn't find it disturbing.... it was fun. It's an RPG -- a role playing game! I was playing the role of the female hunter who fell in love with a man. Regular thing, right? Girl falls in love?
I pursued a relationship with Mako on my male hunter. Same thing. I'm not involved with Mako IRL.
So you're a man, who pretends you're a women, but you're against SGR? I'm very confused.