No no and no. It doesn't really matter. The fact is the topic is relevant, and talking about it isn't harming anyone. Who cares if she was trying to provoke a response, the conversation only went off topic when you turned up.
of course that it is not harming anyone, but what I observe on many topics is that followrs of the SGR topics show up, everywhere and start those discussions and refocus discussion on this subject, it looks like looking acceptance and gathering more followers. It wouldnt go off topic if she would hesitate with calling names, I dislike "phobias" of any kind. I was obliged to respond and oppose such way of calling me.
but on topic, I would like to see this Sith Pureblood as a member of Dark Council