The option I want is the what Antiskeptic is proposing I believe he has it right on what most players will do.
First a forced merge of all 3 servers into an oceanic super server. Then a month after offer a 2 week window for transfers to US PvP or RP servers for those who are completely unhappy with the new arrangement. This will give the best chance for the communities to stay together and those who hate it completely can just leave.
And again I'll reiterate don't offer transfer to random servers as people will take them and it won't solve the population issues for the remaining players in Oceania. Trying to keep these communities together for the most part is best for all.
I think this is a good solution moving forward. That way if there is unhappy RP or PVE players they can transfer at that point and BW avoid any disgruntled players in the future.
Also thank you for finally listening BW