If you want same gender relationship RP with a friend in the game. I would imagine that would be more fulfilling then a cut scene fade to black/occasional flirt option. I would rather see money invested in real game development and not npc relationships.
Then roleplay the OGRs with other players, pretend you have world PvP by turning the PvP flag on and going out into the world, pretend you have new end-game PvE content by making your own challenges in existing content and /sit on chairs to have useable chairs.
Really, though, if you want to express your displeasure at Bioware being progressive, there's already a thread for that. This is not that thread.