Actually PvP is usually ruined by people like you who whine and complain that there are people with better gear killing me. What ever stopped you from getting better gear? Oh yea laziness.
I agree that you shouldn't whine about gear gaps. Everybody to some degree has to deal with them. However, you must live in some sort of Bizarro world to call people lazy because they don't play video games enough. What do you think of all those slackers who have full time jobs, go to the gym, and spend time with their family? Bunch of bums. I'll bet they all want EWH for nothing!