So what im saying here is, do you agree with this arrogant play-style? or do you think there should be more co-operative-ness (i know thats not a word) in these hard-mode flashpoints?
No, I don't agree with it. Yes.
But young un's are young un's. When you put them into a grind-heavy game they become very single-minded, anxious and rude since they want to just go forward, forward, forward.