I have to decide whether to play a girl or to romance a girl, and it's really tough picking just one or the other. Maybe I'll just go play Mass Effect.
I feel the same, though I refuse to do any of the female romances I want with a male PC character out of principle. I feel it just sends a message "Hey, it's cool there are no SGRAs...I'll just roll a male toon to do the female romance options I like".
I've decided to turn all my current female toons into "players" suffering from unrequited love for now, since they can at least flirt with (assuming) multiple female NPCs in Makeb.