You are incompetent. YOU wiped the group. Justify that one. And yes, YOU are in control of your character. YOU got stuck. YOUR fault.
YOU sir, are my hero.
Nobody that's doing these HM FP's for black hole comms wants to be stuck with someone that wants to listen to the story or pull every boss when you can skip them. It's just a hassle, but it can be avoided. Just press the button towards the bottom of the keyboard, it's a big rectangle. You can't miss it.