6. Are you wasting as little time possible on the small adds? (aka letting your good AoE classes kill them)
BH - Explosive Dart -> Death From Above -> go kill Jealous Male
Sorc - Force Storm 'till they die (+ procced Chain Lightning or Death Field) -> JM
Sin - (Death Field ->) JM
Agent - Orbital Strike (-> Plasma Probe) -> JM
Warrior -> JM
Healers could use a single AoE as well if they can afford it and your group has almost no AoE DPS.
Are you saying rdps on adds and mdps on male for all rotations?
what does your group do as a strat?