So once again, today the common denominator to run any HM is to get BH comms, if you don't like it get a guild and stay out of groupfinder.
That is not a nice thing to say, but you represent many of those I met when I investigated this.
It is sad that Biowares flashpoints has become nothing more then comm grinding farms. People used to enjoy killing bosses and had alot of fun, that is atleast how it used to be.
I stil enjoy the flashpoints though and I never ever only do them for comms, I do them because I think they are fun do to.