Sounds to me like you expect to win 100% of all the reg WZs you queue for.
Don't queue alone, and even then, don't expect to win every single game, or you'll just come back and repost this.
Edit: "Stop running to the enemy control node when we have two and are in no danger of losing either." Totally agree with you there. Some people still don't know how Novare works. Also, you can leave a non-tank, hopefully geared player to defend, as long as they call it. Most do not.
I don't expect to win, but there are just some things you have to realize are bad things to do. I'm no elitist, I don't pretend to be, but this is common sense.
And you're right, you CAN leave a geared player to defend but quite a bit it's not 1 geared player and the rest of the team isn't fast enough to answer the call.