I have moved to a server in North America and i get around 172ms its not great but it doesn't effect my game too much and i get to play with a lot of new friends i have made, i think with out a merger of all three oceanic servers the only option is to move
I think you said that wrong, let me rephrase your post for you:
Thank you for ignoring me Bioware. I'll still pay you my money.
Why would they bother fixing a problem that will fix itself? Take a break, play another game until this company learns to appreciate you as a customer.
If you have a GF that keeps kicking you in the tenders, you don't learn to walk with your legs crossed, you get another GF.