actually it was a very good answer, because most guildites out there are just 'deluxe' forums with a calender function, and in the end, that is what you want.
OK, I give up. But thanks for telling me what I want. Thank you both for reminding me why I have been a user of these forums since the first week they went up, but never come here because people do nothing here but troll. So for anyone else, feel free to troll this thread, I am going to unsub from it.