Exactly what I'm talking about. I did the same thing, and later (after the 1.2-patch), I got an invitation from her to catch up. We met on Coruscant and had sex. Same with every single "decision" - it's more like a shooter, where the fights are mine, but the story is a movie.
To be fair, it's my understanding that quest is supposed to happen somewhere around act two, but was disabled. It wasn't new content they patched in.
That said, it was kind of weird to hang out with Jaxo and her friends months after finishing my class story, yes. But it wasn't the developers just ignoring your decision.