You know you're in trouble when?
1st your Tank asks you " hey how do you turn on this flash light?"
2nd Your healer screams when she gets hit and yells, " I NEED A PARAMEDIC DROID, NOW!!!"
3rd and last. You know you're in trouble when? 3 out of 4 of the team, see Darth Malgus, leap up and land in front of them and you smell something foul and then you see, piles of @^$# at those three's boot heels. So at the point you just disconnect and call it a night....