now, I'm actually glad I am not on an RP server !
How come? This stuff only really irritates you if you RP, and there's plenty of good RP out there anyway.
Agreed there is plenty of great and fun RP. There are even great RPers that are really good with lroe and know how to make things fun and educational if you're not big on lore. Even if you don't RP you can just log on and watch people RP. Think of it as a cutscene but other players are the NPCs.