Yeah. I guess the better suggestion would be to assume no one in the game wants you to flirt with them and/or cyber and just concentrate on playing the game itself.
That's a good rule of thumb. Any player could be a boy or girl, but likely none
of them are there looking for romantic attention (unless they say so). Both boys and girls can enjoy or dislike any part of this game; which they are doesn't really change how they should be treated.