Then WHY are they playing an MMORPG? I really do not get that, why do you play a game that is made to challenge you if you do not WANT a challenge? Maybe the synapses in my brain are broken or something but it just doesn't make sense to me at all. I mean there are many other games out there that will give you that experience you want, so why play the one type of game that isn't supposed to hand it to you?
Because contrary to what you seem to believe the content prior to raiding doesn't require wiping a bunch of times till you figure it out. Worse case you get a friend help you with a class quest.
But again, your answer seems to be to have 90% of the population go play something else. Which is all great and all except for the servers will shut down and you won't be playing either.