Being a Jedi is being a slave to the code that doesn't allow you to love or desire anything.
How much more punishment could you ask for?
Being a Jedi is living torture.
apart from the fact that the 'force' you speak about is actually everything, including the person you would love/have sex with, romance and so on, and nothing that exists, including concepts and acts are outside it.
and when you are one with the force, you are one with everything. meaning, you are romancing/loving/having sex/fighting/laughing/making up/sad/happy/angry/calm all at the same time.
like perpetual state of bliss that is described in some hindu teachings - you dont need anything, because you become one with everything you need.